Monday, 17 July 2006

Another one bites the dust!

Not quite, but I'm off for an extended while.

Going walkabout even though I may not go anywhere!

And when I'm back I'll come and make my presence known.

Anyway, it has been wonderful :-D


[Note: Comments switched off across the blog]

Thursday, 13 July 2006

Just another day

  1. Trying to get work done, more deadlines....

  2. Local friend phones me at 12.15pm desperate for me to come round and help hoover and dust her house prior to very important visitor at 1pm. I do it and get out her house with my Dyson and cleaning materials in the nick of time. Her visit is a success I hear and she no longer needs to throw herself under a train!

  3. 16 year old daughter is sorting details of her going on a summer holiday with friends to Spain. Asks our advice but snubs it. Ooo-er. This is the holiday we are part funding as an early birthday present.

  4. My middle-aged brother might be seriously wanting to give up drugs and is looking for help. I'm researching the options.

  5. Surprise delivery of flowers, teddy and helium balloon, from a very grateful client. It has truly been a work of love over the last weeks and it is nice to get the appreciation.

  6. The sun is shining and I can't help feeling cheerful. I'd like to take it easy.

  7. However, back to trying to get that other work done!



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Thursday, July 13, 2006 7:56:00 PM

Chandira said...

:-) Flowers are always nice, aren't they? Lucky you.

Glad to hear your bro is wanting to kick a few bad habits. There are options. Having given up cigarettes, my main breakthrough was in stopping identifying myself as a 'smoker'. Sounds kind of obvious, but it was a real epiphany for me, and a huge step forward, to stop thinking of myself as belonging to some group of people that smoked, somehow. Then I managed to let go of the physical habit, once the mind had been changed in that way. Sounds like he's headed in the right direction, and has taken the biggest step.

(OK, again, without typos..)

Thursday, July 13, 2006 7:57:00 PM

St Jude said...

Ooh de ja vous, your day feels a little like an echo of one of my days from long ago. Just remember to take some time for yourself.

Sorry I am a Grandma, just can't get out of that mode sometimes.

Friday, July 14, 2006 9:30:00 PM

doris said...

Chandira Thanks! I spoke to my brother last night, and he seems to moving towards doing something but is still not there yet.

St Jude It has been a strange few days really. I just visited your blog - wonderful stuff! I loved your story about the false teeth :-D

Saturday, July 15, 2006 11:13:00 AM

Ghone said...

You missed off making sure you to post to your blog!

Saturday, July 15, 2006 1:13:00 PM

Gerald Ford said...

"Trying to get work done, more deadlines...."

Don't bother. I tried that today, Saturday, and ended up playing computer games for 3 hours. Better to keep the ol' expectations low. ;p

Saturday, July 15, 2006 8:03:00 PM

MrsDoF said...

Do we get to see a picture of the flowers and teddy?
I need a bit of vicarious cheering up meself!

Kudos to your brother.
Mental attitude is half the battle.
I know. I have another 58 pounds to walk off.
~~love and Huggs, Diane

Sunday, July 16, 2006 12:52:00 AM

Tidbits

No titillating tidbits
nor tantalising morsels

No nocturnal meanderings
nor knowledgeable quirks

No grinding observations
nor twinkling witticisms

Nowt to tout
Too tired to spout

Friday, 7 July 2006

Memories

Over the last 18 hours I've been searching through all my photographs to find all and any of my girlfriend who will be having her 50th birthday in a few weeks. We have been firm friends since I was 16 and have shared our lives over the years. She lives in Germany so we only meet up maybe annually but we have met up enough to have many memories. I'm going to scan the photos and make a montage or a photo story book. Not quite sure but need to pull my finger out because I'm off to Germany at the end of the month to surprise her. She has no idea I am coming over for her birthday!

In amongst my boxes of memories are some cringemaking stuff I wonder what to do with. For instance, the love notes I wrote over many years to the man I thought I would always love. Sentiments such as "forever" seem so hollow when re-read after the passage of time and events. I haven't time to deal with them now and just stuffed them back where they were. It somehow feels disloyal to Mr Doris to have them but on the other hand these are about the father of one of my kids.

And then there is the newspaper clipping which makes me chuckle. Along with a number of other "leading women" (because of the job I was doing at the time) we were asked to give our views on a section of society. Mine was politics. At this point anyone who knows me now would laugh and splutter that I should be spouting views on politics. Of course I have them and always have but again, the course of time and having children and losing confidence has taken its toll. But I was there spouting politics.

I love that old chestnut the media use when they want to interview someone.... the interviewee who has been dragged out from somewhere so that the media can illustrate their point, suddenly becomes a "leading person in the field" or a "top person" and the such like.

But I digress. It has been lovely looking through the photos. Finding the one of me at the airport at the age of 12 just before boarding the plane on my own to fly across the world. I suddenly remembered that I was careful about the look on my face. That I shouldn't look too excited and must look like I was sad to be leaving my parents. I was terribly sad to be leaving my beloved little sis but heck, apart from that I was thrilled. It is quite funny because I have a muted smile in that pic which is unusual for me because throughout the years I have grinned in my pics almost no matter what was going on. Oooo I sound like a cold and manipulative person but you have to be sometimes to survive.


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Chandira said...

LOL... Looking through old photos is fun! I burned most of my other stuff before moving to the States, but I have years of old diaries, back as far as about 12 years, with all sorts of stupid stuff about old boyfriends! It is cringemaking.. But, it shows you far you've grown.

Yes, thanks, feeling better today, and less delerious. At least you can't spread colds on the internet! Everybody else is avoiding me. ;-)

Friday, July 07, 2006 10:20:00 PM

Annie said...

I've been looking at old photos recently, what with the move and all that. I've looked wistfully at my sons' baby photos, and wished that I could have them back as little blonde smiling babies.
I've looked through wedding photos with a lump in my throat, and wondered how I got from that pretty, promising twenty-two year old to where and who I am today.
I've looked at photos of my ex with my boys and offered them to the boys, trying to explain that it's not because I don't want them, but because they might want them in the future.
I've looked at photos of old friends, and felt sad seeing the ones who have dumped me because I 'abandoned' my kids. It's such a bittersweet thing to do looking through old photos. I'm just glad that I didn't keep my old diaries as well!

Saturday, July 08, 2006 5:04:00 PM

golfwidow said...

Loved the title of your blog but now I'm liking the content even better than that.

Saturday, July 08, 2006 9:30:00 PM

Jo said...

I know what you mean Doris :-) old pictures can be so evocative. They never grow old, they have a power to put you right back somewhere instantly.

What's this nonsense about not believing you could be a 'leading woman' spouting about politics etc?!! You are completely believable hon...your ideas and opinions here are always extremely thoughtful and perceptive.

Have confidence Doris! ;-) For all I know, you might actually be the Under Secretary of State for Work and Pensions!

(PS You're not are you?!)

Sunday, July 09, 2006 1:04:00 AM

Carol said...

Well she knows now, doesn't she? :))

Sunday, July 09, 2006 5:18:00 PM

doris said...

Chandira Yes, it certainly is an indicator of the miles travelled and the ways we have grown. Summer colds are ick, glad you are feeling a bit better.

Annie Ahh for those baby pics of our little treasures as cute ones.

Golfwidow Cooo, thanks!

Jo ROFL - Under Secretary of State for Work and Pensions more like under the Secretary of State for Work and Pensions. (Quick I better rush off and find out if that person is male or female and decide how provocative I wish to be!)

Carol Nah! I don't write such things about someone who reads here.... I have another friend or two in Germany. Strange how one country can end up featuring again and again in a person's life.

Sunday, July 09, 2006 11:00:00 PM

Anji said...

What a fascinating memory lane you've got. I think I would have been careful of the expression on my face at 12 years old too, if I'd had to part from my family. My diaries aren't half as interesting, but I could tell you what I had on my sandwiches 30 years ago today, if you like!

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 9:47:00 AM

doris said...

Go on then Anji - what DID you have on your sandwiches 30 years ago today?!

Sandwich fillings are a whole subject in itself. I can reciprocate and tell you what I had day in and day out!

I love reading through the "boring" details of Mr Doris' boyhood diaries. About his paper delivery jobs, the weather, what he did at school and sometimes what he had for dinner! Tinned peaches were big and a delicacy back in the 70s! ;-)

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 10:52:00 AM

Tuesday, 4 July 2006

Sleepwalking sex

Fascinating programme on TV last night about sleepwalking. A subject close to my heart as a lifelong sleepwalker.

My sleep activities are quite mild in comparison to some of the sleep murders and sleep eaters going on out there. Apparently I am only one of 2,600 people in the UK sleep walking.

My sleepwalking is a shade different in that I often have a vague memory of it after the event and even as it is happening or at some point know that I am asleep and tell myself to remember it, or something like that. Quite wierd really.

Apparently there is a whole species of people who specialise in having sex during their sleep walking activities. Well...... I have to say, that I did that once - that I remember. Hubby was more than delighted to be woken in the middle of the night and rose to the occasion and did not realise until the morning that I had actually been asleep. He wasn't complaining and would be quite happy to oblige anytime!!!


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Jo said...

ROFL - I bet he got a bit of a shock when you said you were asleep! It would be enough to dent any chaps confidence! ;-)

My middle daughter sleepwalks sometimes - we'll find her confused downstairs in the middle of the night, seemingly awake, but not. All we can do is gently guide her back to bed.

BTW I'd have thought there were far more than 2600 sleepwalkers in the UK? That's amazing.

Tuesday, July 04, 2006 10:53:00 PM

jane said...

WOW you most definately are in a small minority. Sleep walking murders would be a very interesting book. I mean, one that actually did it & was unaware, in reality. Not that I want anyone to. You know what I'm saying. (right?)
heh, I'm so glad hubby "rose to the occassion." That Mr. Doris, he deserves to be loved whether you're awake or dreaming. ;)

Wednesday, July 05, 2006 10:22:00 PM

Cheryl said...

Tut
We saw the same programme and both blogged it - but you saw sex and I saw murder.
Hmm.

Wednesday, July 05, 2006 11:12:00 PM

Ghone said...

I have awoken 'fully enagaged'. Mrs Pig seemed to be quite accomodating!
It seems are minds can be quite active even whilst sleeping.

Thursday, July 06, 2006 10:45:00 PM

Curly K said...

I wish I had the option to sleepwalk for sex. As I live alone it would entail breaking and entering - hardly mood inducing stuff!!!

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 11:02:00 AM

BadAunt said...

I haven't sleepwalked since I was in my 20s, but I have a student who told me that he sleep-shops. He goes outside and buys things from the vending machines outside his apartment. He only knows because his mother has caught him several times.

My most worrying sleepwalking experience was waking up with my room in a mess, like it had been burgled, me stark naked, and sand in the bed. I had gone to sleep in pyjamas, clean, and with a tidy room. The beach (with sand) was two blocks away.

I never did find out what happened.

Monday, September 11, 2006 7:15:00 PM